Day out with Mommy!

This post is kinda late and a little out of order but it is just  TOO important to be left out :)

I decided to take Kinsey out for a day of just fun and me and her time before I had Harper.  I had always wondered what the Tree House Museum was like so thats where we went!  We got up and ready for the day and headed out for some fun.  When we got there Kinsey was so excited!  She made herself right at home and played with everything!!!  I had a hard time getting down to her level to play with my full term belly and tight jeans (I should have worn my comfy sweat pants lol).  But I made the best of it and had a BLAST!  We played dress up, cowboys and Indians, made sushi, created quite the noise with all their musical instruments, and didnt have a care in the world.  I didnt care that the parents were looking at me funny as I chased her around lol I had fun and felt like a kid again!

cutest cowgirl i ever did see :)

she knows to wash her hands before she starts cooking haha

there were multiple stations with these phones and they had someone talking about each thing, well Kinsey  would pick up the phones and talk to the ppl haha

Harper's Birth Story

She is finally here!! It took a few tries but we now have our little girl here!  Wednesday November 30th I had a normal OB appointment and not much had changed since the time before.  I left feeling frustrated and upset that I wasn't going to have a November baby but we had decided to schedule an induction for that Friday Dec 2nd.  Brandon went to work that afternoon and I drank Mountain Dew and was going going going all day trying to get things moving along.  Well I started to contract hard around 430 and decided to start counting.  They were coming every 4-6 min!! I called Brandon to give him a heads up just in case and started to make dinner for Kinsey.  The whole time I was making dinner I was in pain from my contractions and that made Kinsey worried so she wanted to be held and wouldn't leave my side.  This made things 10x harder.. I then decided to call Brandon and tell him to get home and started packing our bags.  We got to the hospital around 730 pm and they admitted me into their triage room.  My mom met us at the hospital to keep Kinsey entertained :)  When they admitted me I was dilated to a three and they hooked me up to all the monitors.  After about 45 min of just sitting there contracting I had to get up and walk around.  Kinsey and I held hands and walked around the labor and delivery floor for about 20 min then the nurse told me she wanted to check and see if i had progressed.  I hadnt.... So she called my dr and he wanted me to stay and be induced that night but Mckay has stick rules about inducing before 39 weeks and I was only 38 weeks and 5 days!! 2 Days shy of being induced!!!!!! I wanted to chuck my cup of ice when the nurse told me I had to go home and come back if the contractions got more intense.  I bawled!!  My mom offered to take Kinsey back to her house for the night just in case my contractions did get worse later and I had to head back to the hospital.  I bawled even more when I had to say good bye to Kinsey.  Brandon and I decided to hang out at the hospital for a little bit longer just in case and he had a $9 salad and I ate a piece of pecan pie lol After we were done with that I was sick of that place and just wanted to get home and see if I could progress the labor.  I cried and cried the whole way home and for hours after we got home because I missed my Kinsey and I was pissed the nurse sent me home haha  My contractions eventually slowed down and I was able to go to sleep around 3am.  My dr called me the next morning to see how I was feeling and to tell me he tried to have the nurses induce me early but they didnt want to chance getting in trouble and it would have caused a BIG mess for him to dig out too.. He is really THE BEST dr!!  Oh and did I mention that earlier that day my drs nurse told me Mckay didnt have any avail spots for inductions on the 2nd so they scheduled me for the 3rd! ugh haha

Finally the day of my induction arrived and I had felt like I had been in labor for days!!! I was getting no sleep and it felt like she was going to fall out of me when I walked (TMI sorry haha)  We arrived at the hospital at 8am and sent Kinsey off with my mom again (tear!).  When we checked in the nurse told me they didnt have enough nurses on staff and to go sit and wait for a little bit while they got things ready!!! REALLY?!?!? I had waited enough already haha.  Finally around 845 they got me back into a room and hooked me up to all the monitors and asked me a million and one questions.  Then at about 10 am they started me on oxytocin to get me contracting!  When the nurse checked me she said I was only dilated to a 2!! I was so frustrated because I was a 3 on wed.. Was my cervix just deciding to close up on me haha.  The contractions started coming pretty strong around 1130 and I was having to breath and concentrate with each one.  When they started coming every 3 min they broke my water and thats when they really started to hurt!! No pain, no game right?! Around 1 pm I started asking for my epidural because I knew it would take about an hour to get it and I was not liking the pain.  I got my epidural at 145pm and was happy as a clam after that :) I LOVE modern medicine! I was dilated to a 5 at that point.  About 45 min after my epidural was placed I started to feel a lot of pressure (I dont like to be totally numb so I could still feel the pressure with each contraction) and I felt like I needed to push!  So I called in my nurse and asked her to check me and her eyes got HUGE!! She immediately said "your at a 10!!! I need to call your dr NOW!" haha so i hurried to call my mom since I wanted her in the room too!  My dr arrived very fast and the nurse informed me that we wouldnt be able to wait much longer if the baby's heart rate continued to drop.  I decided to start pushing even though my mom had not gotten there yet... After 2 short pushes baby Harper was in the world!  My dr even let brandon help deliver (he was hesitant at first but Randy was persistent and I am glad because how cool is that, that Brandon got to help deliver his daughter).  My mom missed the delivery by just min :(

waiting for the dr to come so I could have Harper!

Harper Lucille Kunz

6 lbs 15 oz and 20 inches LONG!

December 3rd, 2011 at 254 pm (my brother Colton's birthday!)

I decided to do immediate skin to skin with Harper and that was SO amazing!! They put her right on my chest and cleaned her up there instead of taking her away. I wish I knew about that option with Kinsey..  She was so perfect and reality then hit me that I am a mommy of 2! 

My dr Randy Alejo was AMAZING!!!  I am so glad I got to know him working at Ogden Clinic and I wish I would have met him sooner because I would have totally had him as my OB for Kinsey!  He treated me so well and I didnt feel like "just another patient!"  I had his personal number and was able to reach him 24/7 and ask him any question whenever.  He involved Brandon in the delivery and gave me a huge hug after Harper was born congratulating me.  Delivery was so relaxing and I didnt feel one bit of stress or anxiety :)  It makes me sad that this pregnancy is over because now I wont be seeing him or his staff as often.  They really are awesome!

BEST dr!

she has a GREAT pair of lungs.. lol

me and my girl :)

this pic just cracks me up.. this is how the pediatrition left her lol

Well its getting late and since I am a mommy of 2 perfect girls I need to get to bed... I will update more when I have a spare second haha

Thanksgiving 2011

Wow I am so behind on blogging its sad... I really NEED to get better about this..

Our Thanksgiving was perfect this year! We only went to one place and got to fully enjoy our day :)  We went to my mom's house and ate until we couldn't fit anymore into our belly's haha It was just a small family gathering so it wasn't too noisy and I feel like I got to visit with everyone!
Kinsey had a blast! We played outside and she learned how to throw a football (dad was proud), and made a mess of grandma's toy room. 

I am so thankful for my family and for all they do for me! I truly have the BEST life and I wouldn't have it any other way :)

Hope everyone else had a great TURKEY DAY!

37 and 38 weeks prego!

Well this will be a combined post because I totally didnt have time last week to blog about my last appointment and then I had another one today so I will just put it all into one!!

Last week was my appt and I was 36 weeks and 5 days.  Everything went really well like it normally does and Harper is growing so big VERY fast!  He measured her weight at 6lbs 14oz... YIKES! I was a little freaked out about those numbers because they gain about a pound a week and if i still had 3 weeks left that meant she could be over 9lbs.  Then he checked to see if my cervix was doing anything and the result was NOTHING!! It was still very long and I was only dilated to a finger tip.  I was so discouraged but just kept telling myself that she is just not ready and to just relax. So as soon as we got home I was on the move.  I didnt sit down and was up doing something just trying to get pressure on my cervix so I could make some progress.  And that brings me to my excuses as to why I have been so bad at blogging  for the past week!  Blogging means sitting down at the computer and there was no sitting down this past week.  I raked my yard (which is not an easy task due to the fact we live on a corner and have a HUGE tree!)  I caught up on ALL laundry and even got all Harper's clothes, bedding, and car seat stuff washed, I deep cleaned my whole house, washed walls, baseboards, scrubbed both bathrooms, vacuumed every inch of my floors, re organized Kinsey's room and got her twin bed, painted an antique dresser that i found on KSL for Kinsey and put that in her room, finished the nursery with all furniture, and lots off other little things ALL while chasing around a toddler, taking care of a puppy who had surgery, and having fun! It was a very busy week but it was good!

Then at my appointment today things were exactly what I wanted to hear! Harper is doing fabulous, her heart beat is amazing, I have lots of fluid for her, she is now 6lbs 15oz AND my cervix is almost fully thinned and I am almost dilated to a 2!!!!! wahoo :)  All that hard work def paid off lol  He even swiped my membranes so I hope that helps get things moving a little bit more so I can have her this weekend (after my Turkey dinner and Black Friday shopping of course hehe) 

Wish me luck! I would really like to have Harper this weekend because my Grandma and Grandpa from St. George will be in town and that would be perfect to have them here!!!! :)

1st Hair Cut.

Wow I have been such a blog slacker!! I have great excuses though I promise ;) 

I finally worked up the courage to schedule an appointment to have Kinsey's hair cut.  She was sporting a sever mullet and because of the wonderful callic she got from me, it looked like she had a tail.  So I made the appointment with the guy that cuts my hair, my moms, and pretty much my whole family! I knew I could trust him because he has done several fixes to my hair that other ppl had messed up!
Well I dreaded that day because I knew this meant she was one step closer to being a big girl :( I didn't put her hair in any pony's or pin it back because I just wanted to enjoy the last few days of her crazy mullet!
When we first walked in, Grandma Kristy was there as well for support and we tried to sit Kinsey down in the chair but she just wouldn't have it.  So Dad was the hero and sat in the chair with her on his lap and she was just fine.  Then the nice ladies that were all there to watch gave Kinsey a sucker! (pampering for a toddler haha)  She did such an amazing job sitting so still just eating her sucker and looking around.  We were able to make her hair look so much better and didn't have to cut much off! YEA!!!!!!!! Just a little trim of the bangs (I'm trying to grow those out so not much was trimmed off) and then some off the back to make it more even.  I even got her hair that was cut into a little baggie.  YES I am that crazy mom that wants to save everything but how could you not save hair from the first cut?? lol

I love her new hair cut and I LOVE styling it everyday. 

when it rains, it POORS!

So the past 2 days have been HELL for me! To keep it short, I will just say that if something will break, or go wrong, then it has happened ALL in the past couple days.  I am just blaming it on bad luck ha...  Yesterday was tough because Kinsey was so off schedule do to the time change.  I tried keeping her up a little later the night of the change and she slept in an extra hour so technically she got up at the same time she does everyday, between 730 and 8am.  Well 1130 rolled around and she was so cranky and ornery and I discovered she was hungry. So I fed her lunch and then she went to her room for a nap like we do everyday.. Well it was only 12!! She doesnt nap until 1 on usual days!! I attempted to keep her up for a half hour but that just backfired on me, she only slept for 1 hour then was up and only in a good mood for about 30 min then she was a tantrum throwing very upset little girl.  Nothing Brandon and I would do made her happy so we just let her cry most of the day... That got to my nerves and I tried so hard to be nice and pleasant but its hard when your pregnant lol
That night Kinsey went to bed very good, probably because she was so worn out from throwing tantrums all day, and I headed to bed earlier as well.  All I could do was sit there and think of all the things I needed to get done and to top it off, my eczema would not stop itching!! I know it just makes it worse but its all over my hands and palms so its SOOO hard not to itch it.  I tossed and turned for about 3 hours then finally was able to fall asleep.  This was the first night in a very long time that my neighbors didnt keep me up (their back deck is close to our bedroom window and they are LOUD smokers that take smoke breaks until 430 in the morning!!) So I was frustrated that I was not getting good sleep when I could be.. Then that morning at 630 Kinsey decides to wake up! I had only been sleeping for a good 3 hours and was at the point of exhaustion.. I went in and tucked her back in and told her she needed to play quietly in her bed until Mommy came to get her. Well that lasted until about 7am when Brandon had to get up to get ready for work.  As soon as she heard someone walking around and in the bathroom, she had to get up.  I knew I wouldnt be pleasant so I let her play and do her thing while Brandon got ready.  He was even nice enough to cook her breakfast while I laid in bed bawling my eyes out for no reason (most likely because I was not ready to get out of bed or be awake!)  Then I decided to eat breakfast and get some energy going.  Well I put my two pieces of toast in the toaster and the dang thing wouldnt work!!!! Our toaster was BROKEN!! WHY?!?!?!  Toast is the only thing my belly can really handle in the morning besides oatmeal (we were out of milk so i couldnt make me any of that ha).  So I buttered some bread and put in the oven to broil.. well that doesnt work as good as a toaster so the crusts were burnt and my toast was not very good...  Then THANKFULLY my mom called me later and asked if her and Rob could come over for lunch.  I couldnt be happier to have them come over and bring Kinsey and I lunch!!!!!  While getting ready, well just presentable because I could care less what I looked like today ha, I dropped my foundation in the sink and it shattered!! I dont buy the cheep stuff cuz that is just not good to my face so I sat there looking at my tiny 30 dollar bottle of foundation running down the sink drain. YEP it was fantastic... I got the idea to get a small container and a piece of card stock and scrape and salvage as much as i could.  Finally my mom and Rob showed up and that was so nice!  I needed to just be able to have adult interaction and have someone help me with Kinsey for a little bit ha  Soon after they left Kinsey was ready for her nap at her usual 1 o'clock! I was THRILLED :) and to even add more positive to my day, she slept for the usual 2 hours!  I was able to get some cleaning done, clip all my coupons and rest! When she woke up we played and waited for Dad to get home.  The day was getting better and better :)  As soon as Brandon got home I left for the grocery store.  I took my time and just enjoyed myself as much as possible and didnt rush.  When I got home Brandon hurried to unload all the groceries and then told he me had to hurry and go!? I was so confused until he told me he had school!! I totally forgot today was Monday.. I got home at 550 and he had to be to school at 6pm.. HORRIBLE wife award!  He left and I was stuck putting all the food away and making dinner and having Kinsey climb all over me.  She thinks its funny to sit and hold onto my legs while I walk around lol It gives me quite the workout.  I had all the ingredients for our chicken tacos in the mixing bowl and reached for the Pam to spray in the baking dish and right when I opened the cabinet, my huge thing of olive oil fell.. I dont know what caused it to fall because there is not much in that cabinet.. well it hit the edge of my mixing bowl and chicken tacos went flying EVERYWHERE!! all over me, all over my freshly moped floor, all over my kitchen rugs, all over my appliances that I had polished that afternoon, and pretty much just everywhere! ha.. I started bawling again (for the millionth time today) and called Brandon begging him to just come back home.  On a positive note to this story, there was enough left in the bowl to make Kinsey a couple tacos.  I put what was left in the oven for her and started cleaning up the mess.. Kinsey was such a sweetheart and handed me all the towels she could find and even went to her room to grab some of her blankets to offer to help clean up the huge mess!  I just looked at her and she gave me the biggest hug and put her hands on my face and kissed me! I needed that so much :)  after she ate dinner we went downstairs to eat flipps (our favorite) and watch Aristocats.  She snuggled with me and was such a perfect little girl all night thank goodness :)  Then we did our normal night routine with reading and then bedtime.  and now im blogging because I am afraid to do anything else because I dont want to end tonight on a bad note lol

35 weeks and the count down begins!

Well this Friday I am 35 weeks!! I cannot believe it... Where has the time gone?! But on the bright side, we ALMOST have everything done :)  My appointment was yesterday and things went well..  I was a little stumped when we left but at least I know Harper is doing well and loving it in my belly for now ha.  I have only gained 1 lb in the past 6 weeks but somehow Harper now weighs a little over 5 lbs!!!! Someone please explain to me how this happens haha  That means she has gained almost 3 lbs in less then 3 weeks.. So I guess that means all my resting and lack of heavy work has payed off and she is now gaining weight like crazy!  My fluid looks great and I am only dilated to a finger tip!  I sure hope she comes at 38 weeks because I dont think my body can handle a 9 lb baby.. My plan is to go into labor after I do my black friday shopping lol (if only i get so lucky?!)

Some things that I have been experiencing is LOTs and i mean LOTS of Braxton-Hicks contractions.  I get worried sometimes but my Dr says its ok as long as I dont have more than 6 in an hour.  I have gotten to 6 but never more.. I have even had a few very painful ones that knock me on the floor haha but that only happens when I move way to fast or if I havent sat for a long period of time.  I sometimes forget that I am pregnant, as weird as that sounds, because I am not nearly as big as when I was pregnant with Kinsey so I think I can do things like bend over while sitting down, or squeeze between a tight space, then soon get reminded that I have a basket ball under my shirt lol  Harper moves non-stop!  she is always kicking or punching and sometimes my belly just looks like a big jell-o mold that was shook haha And it never fails every night right when I lay down to go to bed she gets the hick-ups.  Its quite funny for the first 5 min then I just want them to stop so I can go to sleep!  I have also been feeling queasy lately.  Its almost like I am back in the first trimester.  Certain smells or even sounds (nose blowing), makes me gag!  I have had to take my Zofran quite a bit lately and I hate when it comes time to cooking because I dont know if the smell will make me sick or not!  Kinsey still doesnt quite understand that there is a baby in my belly.. she just thinks its funny to poke at my belly button (which is herniated by the way ugh!!!) and she LOVES to lay her head on it while watching TV.  For all I know she just thinks I am getting fat but she doesnt judge! haha

My next appointment is in 2 weeks and I am kinda scared to see how much Baby Harper weighs.. Lets hope she has gained weight but not more then a pound or so lol